Psychotherapy
Executive Psychotherapy for People Who Will Not Say It Out Loud
We hold a private space for the high performers other people rely on, where the armour comes off and the deeper work actually happens.
- Executive Psychotherapist
- 1,000+ Clients Transformed
- Featured in Men's Health
About this work
What executive psychotherapy with Nicky Anstey actually is
Executive psychotherapy with Nicky Anstey is one to one work for high functioning business owners, founders and senior leaders carrying patterns that strategy, frameworks and habits cannot reach. Nicky is a multi award-winning Executive Psychotherapist with more than 15 years of practice. Her psychotherapy carries an executive and performance lens, integrated with hypnotherapy, NLP, performance coaching and performance nutrition through the trademarked Rewire Method where the work calls for it. The result is depth without the loss of pace, in a space designed for people who cannot afford to be seen working through it anywhere else.
The private problem of the high functioning
Most high functioning people seek therapy when they can feel the collapse coming
On the outside, life is working. Business is working. Career is working. On the inside, you are carrying something that does not fit the picture. Old patterns. Old stories. A relationship with pressure that started a long time ago and has never really been looked at.
Most high functioning professionals do not look for therapy when things collapse. They look when they can feel the collapse coming and do not want to wait for it. Psychotherapy is not crisis work. It is root work.
How the work moves
Executive Psychotherapy for People Who Will Not Say It Out Loud
The work is shaped by the people Nicky sees. Executives, founders and senior leaders who cannot afford to be seen working through it openly. Sessions are strictly confidential and structured for people who need depth in a space that respects the rest of their life.
Suitable for:
- High functioning anxiety and chronic pressure.
- Perfectionism, people pleasing and imposter syndrome.
- Patterns rooted in early experience still running in adult life.
- Relational patterns inside work, business or personal life.
- Grief, loss and significant life transitions.
- Recovering from burnout or close to burnout states.
- Quiet low mood, loss of meaning, or being stuck.
According to research reported by Mind, only around 2 in 5 people experiencing mental health challenges access professional support. Among high functioning professionals, the figure is likely lower. Most carry it quietly.
Where the work calls for it, hypnotherapy, NLP and performance coaching are integrated via the Rewire Method.
Clients who did the deeper work
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“I just wanted to say how transformational my sessions have been with Nicky and I would wholeheartedly recommend her.”
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“The most powerful timeline work I’ve ever done – gentle, insightful, and deeply effective. Nicky is truly the best.”
How You Can Work with Nicky
Nicky works with a small number of clients at any one time. Every engagement is delivered by her directly, with no associates and no handoffs. Most clients begin with a Reset Call and from there choose the right programme together.
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See Rewire Coaching
Rewire Coaching
The signature one to one programme, built on the trademarked Rewire Method. Where most clients begin.
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See Executive Coaching
Executive Coaching
For founders, directors and senior leaders at the top of their field who refuse to pay for performance with their health.
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See High Performance Coaching
High Performance Coaching
For high achievers who already perform and want the inner state to match the outer results.
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See Leadership Coaching
Leadership Coaching
For leaders who feel the weight of every decision and want to lead from a steadier place.
Succeed Beyond Your Limits
Twenty minutes with Nicky, one to one. No pitch. Honest conversation. If her work is the right fit, she will say. If it is not, she will say that too.
Why Nicky
Why Work With Nicky Anstey
She has lived it. Nicky experienced severe burnout during her own corporate career, then built her businesses through significant personal and health challenges. The story is not background. It is the reason the work goes deeper than most coaching.
She has the qualifications to go deep. Nicky is a qualified Executive Psychotherapist, Master NLP Coach, Master Hypnotherapist, Master Life and Business Coach, and a Registered Nutritionist aligned with medicine. Five disciplines inside one practitioner. Most coaches hold one.
She has the results. Over 1,000 clients have worked with Nicky and gone through the trademarked Rewire Method. Reduced pressure, clearer thinking, stronger leadership, healthier lives.
She is not a generalist. Nicky works specifically with high-achieving business owners and senior leaders. The people who others assume are fine, because they are still performing. Read more about Nicky here.
Frequently Asked Questions
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What is psychotherapy
A talking based therapeutic approach that works with the patterns, experiences and beliefs shaping how you feel and behave now. Unlike short term coaching, psychotherapy has space to go to the root.
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How is psychotherapy with Nicky different
Nicky brings an executive and performance lens. She also integrates hypnotherapy, NLP and performance coaching where useful, rather than holding a single modality throughout.
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Is this suitable if I am not in crisis
Yes. Most clients are high functioning people doing the deeper work before they have to.
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How long does psychotherapy take
Depends on what is being worked with. Some work is focused and time limited. Deeper work is also available.
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Online or in person
Both.
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Is it confidential
Yes, strictly.
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Can my company sponsor psychotherapy
In some cases, yes. Therapeutic work is sometimes sponsored through employee benefits or private health cover.
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Will we dig through my entire childhood
Only where it is useful to the work. Nicky does not chase history for its own sake.
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Is this the same as Rewire Coaching
Psychotherapy is one of the disciplines inside the Rewire Method. You can work with Nicky purely therapeutically, or inside an integrated Rewire Coaching programme.
Working Across the UK and Internationally
Most one to one work is delivered online, which means Nicky works with business owners and senior leaders across the United Kingdom, Europe and internationally. In person engagements are arranged by appointment for corporate workshops and select programmes.
Transform to Perform Coaching
Godalming, Surrey, UK
Ready to Book Your Reset Call
Twenty minutes, one to one with Nicky
Share a little about what is going on. Nicky reads every enquiry personally.
Book your free Reset Call
No obligation. Confidential. 20 minute call. Fit check for both of us.
Case Study
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